This is the Root of Anger and Frustration...

Sports; everybody loves to have at least once in a day. It keeps you healthy and fit, refreshes your mind from all the stress, dizziness, frustration, and makes you active.

Hmm, now if I come to values what it teaches us, the first thing that comes to our mind is: "Don't be sad or frustrated due to your defeat." Right? But when today when I was playing my favorite sport i.e. Badminton, I just discovered a sensation that initially developed inside me, which actually ruined my half of the game. Literally!! my half game was ruined because of it. I just got angrier every time I was defeated, and simply my focus would get worse. Until I realized what's exactly happening.....

So now I just went on thinking about why it happened, what is the reason? Though I was in the middle of the game. So I just focused on my anger first, but later found that this isn't the root of the problem. This is just a byproduct. Then what's the reason? Then, I realized it! Step by step:

Now, this is my life experience. Just don't wanna say as if it's written in a subject textbook.

I was playing not a game. Meaning no points. Just for fun.

Whereas in the street my neighbors were playing with points. So after I stopped playing, done for today, I was looking at them. That time, it flashed to me why my half game was only a subject of anger and a bit of frustration. I had found the root!

It was JEALOUSY. How?

Let me explain to you in detail:

Now look at the difference when you play with points and without points a game/sport:

You play without points, you play freely. No worries to score more than your opponent. You learn how to play better; you improve.

Now if play the same game having points to score, you focus on simply scoring more, and easily get offended when you don't perform up to the mark. Unnecessary arguments, no satisfaction for playing, peace of mind disappears. When these don't remain, happiness is killed.

So overall it becomes a waste of playing. Not only here guys, it also occurs in career and in almost all corners of life. Now some may have already overcome it. Congrats! But this is a feeling that can attack anyone. Anyone! You all must have heard of it way before this article was published. But everybody has different points of view. And it will be always unique. Who knows, what can bring a Turning Point in a person's life!!

So after some years pass by, we only remember the base jealousy is bad. But how? Where? We don't remember. You can consider my article anyhow. No probs in it. And, STAY AWAY FROM IT! When you only think to score more, or show better results or always run behind who is earning a bigger buck, etc, your learning stops. Equals no more development or growth.

And yes, the more time you spend in it, the Faster it will perish you from inside. So again, STAY AWAY FROM JEALOUSY.

How can you stay away from it? Let me take a second to address that question too.

Simple. Regularly keep checking in yourself why do get angry. Why couldn't you focus today, why aren't you satisfied by the work you have done?

Just make a self-analysis. That's enough. But you must take corrective action according to what you found. No compromising.

And I believe many of you who watch my blog are parents. So I recommend watching this video. It's really very informative. Talks about today's child mentality and the parent's mentality. I just loved it. He is a famous speaker. I have set him as my role model. You can check it out here.

And from this article onwards I will be posting some links here of other websites or Youtube channels. Which I think is essential for our society, individual development, and accepting the changes in the new world.

So I have written too much till now. Sorry about that

But my main intention is to convey fully and clearly what I want to.

Hope that my article has been very informative to you. And you guys loved it.

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