Starting with a small question...
What's the first thing that comes in your mind when you look at the celebrities? Highly Successful People? The Rich? The first two words that pop out from your mouth are Wow and How. Like, if I take an example before the arrival of Covid-19, you just have a chat on the footpath, and then you see a Magnificent Royce pass by.
At that time, it very common for us to think "How cool! I wish if I could afford that car...". And the next question that arises is 'How' did this guy become so rich? Is it inherited money or did he make all of this by himself? Now, why am I saying this? I was supposed to make you aware of a Harsh Truth right?
But wait. this is very important that I first make you aware when you read this, where is it applicable and how well can you use it. Because reading without understanding the content, analyzing, and implementation of it, It's just a waste of time. So as we grow on, or as time passes by, new things or new events start to occur in life. It can be anything, so I will not mention anything more about it.
Now especially for the ones who are 18 years old, trying out new things or exploring new kinds of stuff will be a craze. And Seriously saying, the youth is so energetic now that they don't hesitate to implement their new ideas. And these days, almost all people love to make their own stuff, especially after the COVID crisis people are thinking of small start-ups, and are opening up. The idea of Try something New has been now sort of embedded in everyone. So nice! So the majority think of a new idea, and literally, go for it! But, Here comes the harsh truth about life that I was saying before.Till now, whatever I have experienced in life, I say from it that whenever you start something or do something new, the first thing you will face is nothing else than a Complete Failure.
Ya! 99.98 percent of the people face failures after they start something new or do something out of the box.
Life will Crush you when you dare to rise for the first time. Only 0.02 percent of the people barely achieve what they want in a first go. Sometimes, you may get something but not as high as you expected.
Now let me say it briefly why does it happen? Why only failure first? It has a very Genuine Reason. Its simply because when you try new stuff or do something new, you are yet to gain some experience in it. And without experience, how can you simply succeed in that field in a single go? So don't be Impatient. But there is another sad thing that happens to most people.
The current Mental environment of people is designed in such a way that they always run away from risk. And the ones who try to bring a change the ones who try something out of the box and fail, are commonly welcomed by criticism. Rather than advising on to give another try to it, the uprising 'change-makers' are criticized, made fun of, seen with a negative perspective, and are later associated with the ones not to follow.
This is the exact moment where the sadness the regret kicks in for many people. Although they know that failure will come for the first time, they mentally do Not accept it. And the sadness/regret deepens over time for many by seeing the criticism they face and the advice of not going again for it/you have made a big mistake.
Hence, finally, it leads to the worst stage for many called depression. According to me, Depression mainly occurs when you are consistently facing the moments that your Mind does not want to Accept or Face. This period I can call the period where your mind works against you. Not ready to accept the pain that you are experiencing from inside. And all of you know what to do when you have signs of depression, its remedies, and its cure. Don't worry, I will not talk about that. But all I want is to make you see why exactly depression occurs: Rejection by people, The situation you face which you are not really prepared for, The lack of Focus and a false belief that you have lost your talent and many other of such circumstances.....
And before I conclude, Just don't want to end it here. This is very important. You see, I talked about the rejection, and that the life crushes you when you try to rise for the first time, but let me clearly say what happens when you Overcome it...So, When you set out on a New Voyage to your desired Destination You basically have Three stages.
The first stage is the Rejection Stage. The second stage is the Sunrise Stage where you begin to see some ray of hopes that you will accomplish what you ought to. The third and final stage is your Destination. You finally achieve what you wanted to. All the Glory, the name, fame, Success will be waiting for you here.
Also read:
Here's how you can change your life forever!
But wait. this is very important that I first make you aware when you read this, where is it applicable and how well can you use it. Because reading without understanding the content, analyzing, and implementation of it, It's just a waste of time. So as we grow on, or as time passes by, new things or new events start to occur in life. It can be anything, so I will not mention anything more about it.
Uncovering a Harsh Truth...
Now especially for the ones who are 18 years old, trying out new things or exploring new kinds of stuff will be a craze. And Seriously saying, the youth is so energetic now that they don't hesitate to implement their new ideas. And these days, almost all people love to make their own stuff, especially after the COVID crisis people are thinking of small start-ups, and are opening up. The idea of Try something New has been now sort of embedded in everyone. So nice! So the majority think of a new idea, and literally, go for it! But, Here comes the harsh truth about life that I was saying before.Till now, whatever I have experienced in life, I say from it that whenever you start something or do something new, the first thing you will face is nothing else than a Complete Failure.
Ya! 99.98 percent of the people face failures after they start something new or do something out of the box.
Life will Crush you when you dare to rise for the first time. Only 0.02 percent of the people barely achieve what they want in a first go. Sometimes, you may get something but not as high as you expected.
Why does it happen?
Now let me say it briefly why does it happen? Why only failure first? It has a very Genuine Reason. Its simply because when you try new stuff or do something new, you are yet to gain some experience in it. And without experience, how can you simply succeed in that field in a single go? So don't be Impatient. But there is another sad thing that happens to most people.
The current Mental environment of people is designed in such a way that they always run away from risk. And the ones who try to bring a change the ones who try something out of the box and fail, are commonly welcomed by criticism. Rather than advising on to give another try to it, the uprising 'change-makers' are criticized, made fun of, seen with a negative perspective, and are later associated with the ones not to follow.
What happens exactly at this point of time?
This is the exact moment where the sadness the regret kicks in for many people. Although they know that failure will come for the first time, they mentally do Not accept it. And the sadness/regret deepens over time for many by seeing the criticism they face and the advice of not going again for it/you have made a big mistake.
Hence, finally, it leads to the worst stage for many called depression. According to me, Depression mainly occurs when you are consistently facing the moments that your Mind does not want to Accept or Face. This period I can call the period where your mind works against you. Not ready to accept the pain that you are experiencing from inside. And all of you know what to do when you have signs of depression, its remedies, and its cure. Don't worry, I will not talk about that. But all I want is to make you see why exactly depression occurs: Rejection by people, The situation you face which you are not really prepared for, The lack of Focus and a false belief that you have lost your talent and many other of such circumstances.....
The three stages of your Journey...
And before I conclude, Just don't want to end it here. This is very important. You see, I talked about the rejection, and that the life crushes you when you try to rise for the first time, but let me clearly say what happens when you Overcome it...So, When you set out on a New Voyage to your desired Destination You basically have Three stages.
The first stage is the Rejection Stage. The second stage is the Sunrise Stage where you begin to see some ray of hopes that you will accomplish what you ought to. The third and final stage is your Destination. You finally achieve what you wanted to. All the Glory, the name, fame, Success will be waiting for you here.
Also read:
Here's how you can change your life forever!
The Three Main Strategies used in Increasing your Success Rate to 99% !!
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